HEVAL: The Psychologist

 💫Stepping outside the structured rhythm of education, a gap year offers a unique opportunity for exploration, personal growth, and self-discovery. But with such freedom comes the potential for aimlessness. As a clinical psychologist, I see clients who approach their gap year with both excitement and trepidation, unsure how to best utilize this precious time. So, here are some insights to help you transform your gap year into a year of meaningful exploration and productive self-investment 1. Define Your Goals: It's tempting to drift through a gap year, but without a direction, valuable time can slip away. Ask yourself: What do you hope to gain from this year? Do you crave adventure and cultural immersion? Want to develop new skills or gain work experience? Do you seek personal growth and self-reflection? Identifying your goals provides a roadmap for your decisions and helps you measure your progress. 2. Embrace Structure: Structure doesn't negate freedom; it empowers it. Creat...

Perfectionism might seem like a positive trait on the surface, but it can actually hinder your mental health and happiness. If you often find yourself striving for unrealistic standards and feeling unnecessarily harsh on yourself, you might be grappling with perfectionism. Signs of Perfectionism: 1. Constantly striving for "perfect" results in everything you do. 2. Intense fear of making mistakes or falling short. 3.Avoiding criticism at all costs. 4. Comparing yourself to others and feeling inadequate. 5. Procrastinating or avoiding new challenges for fear of failure. 6. Harsh self-criticism and blame when things don't go perfectly. Strategies to Overcome Perfectionism A. Lower your standards: Set realistic expectations and understand that mistakes are inevitable and human. B. Practice self-compassion: Talk to yourself like you would a friend, not your worst critic. C. Take small steps: Break down large, intimidating goals into smaller, manageable tasks. D. Celebrate eff...